i know there are some people on my flist who do, so i have to say it just so they know it's a line i don't cross. personal feelings go some way to explaining this, but w/ever.

that's good ;) bdsm doesn't work for me. well, except in certain circumstances, but w/ever. so true. SO TRUE>

you wouldn't have! they were amazingly nice. i thought i would have. i did, after all, call arthur/bradley dim. however indirectly. i nearly didn't ask the question but then i did and it was awesome but he hates me now :( well, he said he wasn't talking to me and then he did so i bet we're alright, actually ;))